Bargain Gowns
& Dresses
(Robbi Ernst III, Great Wedding Tips From the Experts)
Bridal/Wedding gowns are often the first
big wedding purchase, many women have learned an expensive lesson shopping for a
bargain dress at a "one day warehouse sale". Before you shop for your
wedding gown or dress, consider these precautions:
- If the price seems too good to be true, it
probably is: Don't be taken in by previous price tags they're often
inflated. The shopworn dress which seems to be such a great bargain might be
almost the same price, ordered new from a bridal boutique local bridal shop.
- Don't buy without seeing the dress in a full
length, 3 way mirror, while wearing appropriate shoes. Alterations on
wedding gowns and dresses can be incredibly expensive if you buy the wrong
size or a style that is not good for your figure. The combined cost of the
alterations and the bargain dress or gown may be more than you would
have paid for a new dress in the right size.
- Some cleaners will not accept a dress to be
cleaned prior to a wedding unless they know the fabric content and the stain
origins, so don't buy a wedding dress or gown with all labels removed.
- Don't be pressured to make an instant decision
by someone saying "if you don't take that dress, I want to buy
it"; or "it won't be here tomorrow."
- Don't buy a wedding dress or gown (or any
merchandise or service) from a merchant that does not have a permanent local
address and phone number.
If you're looking for a bargain gown
that is also a great value, watch for sales from established bridal shops,
reputable bridal shop merchants. Better yet, visit local bridal shops and
boutiques. Many brides don't realize most bridal shops have a sizable inventory
of lovely discontinued sample gowns and dresses. A reputable bridal shop will
give you the same service on a sale gown as on a full price wedding gown.
 
Have you
decided on a flower girl for your wedding yet?
If yes,
it is time to choose her dress, which can actually be a fun time for
both of you. After all, next to the bride, the flower girl will be
getting a lot of the "ooh's" and "ahh's".
When
choosing a flower girl's dress, begin by checking out boutiques that
specialize in children's wedding wear. A regular wedding shop may be
able to help, however usually these shops will only adjust adult
measurements to fit a small child, which could cause the dress to
look disproportionate to the child's body frame.
Although the bride may already have a design in mind for choosing
the flower girl's dress, remember that the parents will be paying
for it, unless otherwise arranged. Let the flower girl's mom and the
flower girl, herself, give opinions to the dress you are looking at
and be sure it is in a price range they can afford.
Remember to keep in mind that little girls grow fast, when choosing
your flower girl's dress. If you are ordering the dress six months
in advance, you may want to add a few inches to the dress, which can
then be altered the week before the wedding. Just like with any
dress, it will be easier to take it in than adding material to a
dress that is too small.
Little
girls like to feel like princesses in their dresses. So consider a
smaller make to your wedding gown when choosing a flower girl's
dress. Traditional flower girl dresses are usually white with full,
ruffle skirts underneath to give them the 'bridal' look. Flower
accented dresses are also popular among flower girls. Use hoop slips
to give them that princess look. Keep in mind the material you are
selecting. A soft, silky feel will leave your flower girl less
fidgety versus a rougher material that will make them itch and
feeling uncomfortable.
When
choosing your flower girl's dress, do not forget to find matching
accents for her hair. Decide if you want her hair up or down. With
either, adding baby's breath and ribbons will give her a beautiful
look of enchantment. Also let her parent's know what type of shoe
you would like her to wear with her dress. If you choose a shorter
dress, close toe or an open sandal, depending on the time of year,
would be appropriate. If the dress is long and flowing, covering her
feet, think about letting her wear white slippers. This will ensure
her comfort and make the event more enjoyable for everyone.
Flower
girls add a cute touch to any wedding. Let her carry a beautiful
bouquet or throw flower pedals down the aisle as she walks, which is
usually the tradition of her role. If the child you choose is too
small to walk, decorate a red wagon in a lot of white lace and
flowers and let an older child, or bridesmaid pull the wagon down
the aisle.
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